As some of you may know, I love a good romantic novel. I'm a sucker for romance; a hopeless (or hopeful?) romantic. I write romance, I read romance and I live romance (meaning I see and feel it everywhere). For me, the best romantic novel would excite me, break my heart (a little) then put it all back together again with an ending that leaves a smile on my face and hope in my heart.
I do not, however, limit my reading to romance only. I'm an eclectic reader with many interests and a willingness to take a chance on a story, but a common theme to the stories that capture me the most would be human endurance followed (always) by triumph.
I'm fascinated by stories of people faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles, yet they find ways to survive and thrive. Add a romance in the mix and I'm on cloud nine. ;) But weather it's a romance or a story of the human condition, it's the happy ending that holds the power for me. That may sound sappy to some, but before you roll your eyes and shake your head, read on to find out why I feel the way I do about happy endings. It may or may not surprise you. Just don't mistake happy endings with happiness on every page.
World War 2 period stories are at the top of my list of beloved novels. The stories of endurance and triumph are abundant. From the Holocaust to the soldier's experience to the loved ones left behind, I'm fascinated. But I'm not limited to that time period as history holds endless stories of survival and triumph.
Why do I like this kind of stuff so much if I'm a sucker for happy endings? Because it's full of happy endings with amazing examples of how strong the human spirit is. I could go on and on, listing so many books as examples, but I'll go with the one that's in the headlines right now.
"Unbroken". That book (now movie) amazed and touched me deeply. Not simply for what the protagonist of this true story endured and overcame (though that was huge!), but for how he reacted to what he triumphed over; what he did with what he learned and endured.
As individuals with our own life struggles big and small, stories that show the success of endurance followed by triumph are empowering. Not only are they uplifting and inspiring to read, but after reading them, we store the bits and pieces of these triumphant stories to give us strength and hope in times when we need them most.
All of this probably leads you to conclude (rightfully so) that I am the kind of reader who searches for and expects happy endings. Absolutely. The happy ending doesn't just satisfy a conclusion to a good story, it offers hope in a world with too many unhappy endings. Wanting happy endings isn't living in a fantasy land, it's looking for hope. And hope is a powerful thing. Just ask any survivor.
Okay, so how do you feel about happy (not sappy) endings? Especially knowing that by "happy", I speak of something far deeper.
We all have our preferences and reasons for them. I'd enjoy hearing what yours are. And no matter your ending of choice, I wish you all happy reading.
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Monday, November 24, 2014
How to name your book characters
The process of naming your characters in your story can be as daunting as naming your own child. You want the name to be fitting, yet not dull (unless dull suits your character). Generally, the first name of my characters comes fairly easily as I imagine their personality (strengths and weaknesses). I bounce through 4 or 5 names until one settles. But the last name is more of a process as it can also be used as a nickname or show family origin. Names hold a lot of weight, no doubt.
Have you ever read a book where the protagonist's name didn't seem to fit? It's too flowery for the character, too strong, too hard to pronounce, or just plain too strange. It can be distracting to the point of pulling the reader from the story every time they come across the name. Not good.
One "trick" I use is paying attention to the names at the end of movies. All the names, not just the stars. There are a wealth of names scrolling up the screen after a film that are fantastic possibilities. I take note of a few that jump out and file them for future reference, or use them right away if I happen to be in need.
Whatever your method of name-finding, the key is to be sure the name isn't just a pretty or sexy name, but that it fits the character in every way. You probably wouldn't, for example, give a reserved bank teller from a traditional family and background the name Justice Jakes (female) or Rambo Drake (male), right? No, you'd stick closer to Jane Johnson or William James, or something along those lines (though maybe not quite that basic).
Though there is more work in naming a character than just slapping them with anything that comes to mind without further thought, do remember there isn't only ONE possible name that will work for each character. You'll likely find a few that would work, so just pick the one that grabs you the most and go with it.
For further information and insight, here are a few links to some sites I've found that offer more tips on the subject.
http://www.writersdigest.com/online-editor/the-7-rules-of-picking-names-for-fictional-characters
http://www.wikihow.com/Come-Up-With-a-Good-Name-for-Your-Book-Character
Best of luck finding what works for you, and happy naming!
Have you ever read a book where the protagonist's name didn't seem to fit? It's too flowery for the character, too strong, too hard to pronounce, or just plain too strange. It can be distracting to the point of pulling the reader from the story every time they come across the name. Not good.
One "trick" I use is paying attention to the names at the end of movies. All the names, not just the stars. There are a wealth of names scrolling up the screen after a film that are fantastic possibilities. I take note of a few that jump out and file them for future reference, or use them right away if I happen to be in need.
Whatever your method of name-finding, the key is to be sure the name isn't just a pretty or sexy name, but that it fits the character in every way. You probably wouldn't, for example, give a reserved bank teller from a traditional family and background the name Justice Jakes (female) or Rambo Drake (male), right? No, you'd stick closer to Jane Johnson or William James, or something along those lines (though maybe not quite that basic).
Though there is more work in naming a character than just slapping them with anything that comes to mind without further thought, do remember there isn't only ONE possible name that will work for each character. You'll likely find a few that would work, so just pick the one that grabs you the most and go with it.
For further information and insight, here are a few links to some sites I've found that offer more tips on the subject.
http://www.writersdigest.com/online-editor/the-7-rules-of-picking-names-for-fictional-characters
http://www.wikihow.com/Come-Up-With-a-Good-Name-for-Your-Book-Character
Best of luck finding what works for you, and happy naming!
Friday, October 17, 2014
"If you're satisfied with your first draft, you're not an artist".
The post heading is just one quote from a line of taken from an insightful blog post at Daniel & Daniel Publishers.
For a guideline of "rules" for writing fiction (short or long) summed up in an easy to read and understand (as well as humorous) form, go to http://www.danielpublishing.com/resourcesback.htm.
As the publisher states at the beginning of the article: "You may not wish to follow these rules as you write your own stories, but you should at least be aware of them, and know that if you're not following them, you are not following them by choice. If you do find yourself following them, it won't be by choice. It will be because you are writing well".
Rules simultaneously have a place in fiction writing and have no place in fiction writing. In other words, rules in writing are better used as common sense guidelines. They may be broken if breaking them will not confuse the reader in any way.
A quick look at the above mentioned article/blog will at the least be an entertaining read, and at the most, enlightening and informative. I find that reading or hearing a reiteration of what I already know (as a fiction writer) further cements my knowledge. Yes, I know that already becomes Oh, yeah. Good reminder.
I hope someone (or a lot of someones) find this post helpful in even the smallest of ways.
Happy writing!
For a guideline of "rules" for writing fiction (short or long) summed up in an easy to read and understand (as well as humorous) form, go to http://www.danielpublishing.com/resourcesback.htm.
As the publisher states at the beginning of the article: "You may not wish to follow these rules as you write your own stories, but you should at least be aware of them, and know that if you're not following them, you are not following them by choice. If you do find yourself following them, it won't be by choice. It will be because you are writing well".
Rules simultaneously have a place in fiction writing and have no place in fiction writing. In other words, rules in writing are better used as common sense guidelines. They may be broken if breaking them will not confuse the reader in any way.
A quick look at the above mentioned article/blog will at the least be an entertaining read, and at the most, enlightening and informative. I find that reading or hearing a reiteration of what I already know (as a fiction writer) further cements my knowledge. Yes, I know that already becomes Oh, yeah. Good reminder.
I hope someone (or a lot of someones) find this post helpful in even the smallest of ways.
Happy writing!
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
First bird leaves the nest
Well the day finally arrived. A day I've thought about for years, but was not prepared as fully as I'd hoped when it snuck up on me. My first-born "little bird" has flown from the nest. He's gone off to attend his first year of a four year university. While I couldn't be more excited for him and thrilled for his arrival into adulthood and real independence, I admit I was a little thrown by the sadness that followed.
It began as H.S. graduation approached. I found myself weepy off and on (not a usual characteristic of mine) as the year came to a close. When he walked down the aisle, waiving his diploma with pride and the thrill he was finished with high school, I frantically tried in vain to get my camera to take pictures. An action that caused me to miss the walk completely. I did, at least, hear the announcement of his name, thank goodness. I'll hold on to that!
Summer followed and I put aside thoughts of the looming fact he would soon be leaving home to live in the dorms of his school. When summer came to an end and the day we drove him to school arrived, I was more afraid of crying (or crying too hard) than I was of leaving him behind. But, in fact, I did not cry. Not until the next day when reality sank in. I tried to bury my emotions, but I was discombobulated, scattered, distracted and weepy. By that night I was fully aware how terribly I missed my son, and how truly uncomfortable it was not to know where he was and what he was doing. After 18 years, it's tough to relinquish access to that knowledge.
The emotional roller-coaster is as much about entering into a new family dynamic and new routines as it is about missing him and letting go. I'm not one who normally takes issue with change, but some change is just too big to grasp right away. It takes time.
The biggest help in my journey to finding my equilibrium again came when my son contacted me. A simple text, promising to call me the next day, ending with a heart symbol did a world of wonders for my state of mind. I realized he hadn't forgotten me and he hadn't disappeared from my life, just my daily life. So I soldier on, still missing him, but also still very happy for him and the adventures that await him as he steps further into adulthood.
I wish all you moms and dads out there who are in the same shoes all the best as we each travel through this time armed with the love that unites us forever to our children, wherever they go.
It began as H.S. graduation approached. I found myself weepy off and on (not a usual characteristic of mine) as the year came to a close. When he walked down the aisle, waiving his diploma with pride and the thrill he was finished with high school, I frantically tried in vain to get my camera to take pictures. An action that caused me to miss the walk completely. I did, at least, hear the announcement of his name, thank goodness. I'll hold on to that!
Summer followed and I put aside thoughts of the looming fact he would soon be leaving home to live in the dorms of his school. When summer came to an end and the day we drove him to school arrived, I was more afraid of crying (or crying too hard) than I was of leaving him behind. But, in fact, I did not cry. Not until the next day when reality sank in. I tried to bury my emotions, but I was discombobulated, scattered, distracted and weepy. By that night I was fully aware how terribly I missed my son, and how truly uncomfortable it was not to know where he was and what he was doing. After 18 years, it's tough to relinquish access to that knowledge.
The emotional roller-coaster is as much about entering into a new family dynamic and new routines as it is about missing him and letting go. I'm not one who normally takes issue with change, but some change is just too big to grasp right away. It takes time.
The biggest help in my journey to finding my equilibrium again came when my son contacted me. A simple text, promising to call me the next day, ending with a heart symbol did a world of wonders for my state of mind. I realized he hadn't forgotten me and he hadn't disappeared from my life, just my daily life. So I soldier on, still missing him, but also still very happy for him and the adventures that await him as he steps further into adulthood.
I wish all you moms and dads out there who are in the same shoes all the best as we each travel through this time armed with the love that unites us forever to our children, wherever they go.
Tuesday, April 15, 2014
Grammar as a tool to land a job or even get a date?
I recently read an article that claimed 61% of employers looking (on Linked-in) for potential employees in any field ignore those who do not use proper grammar on social sites, including Facebook postings.
It seems using bad or incorrect grammar on your social sites is even more of a faux pas than posting about drinking and parties or other frowned upon activities (in the eyes of an employer).
My son chimed in with another interesting article he'd read on the subject of grammar and dating sites. It seems women are more attracted to men who have a grasp on correct grammar. Those men receive more "likes" than the others who are more lackadaisical with their grammar skills.
Although I make my share of grammatical errors, I work like heck to limit them. Nonetheless, I admit to being a grammar Nazi. I may not be totally efficient (or as thoroughly educated as I'd like to be on the subject) with all the rules of grammar, but I sure expect it of others! LOL! And I find it ironic that I am a horrible speller, yet when a man misspells words, it turns me off. How unfair of me!
Bottom line? Don't let social media, tweeting or texting ruin your grammatical skills (or your love life!). :) Make an effort at the very least.
It seems using bad or incorrect grammar on your social sites is even more of a faux pas than posting about drinking and parties or other frowned upon activities (in the eyes of an employer).
My son chimed in with another interesting article he'd read on the subject of grammar and dating sites. It seems women are more attracted to men who have a grasp on correct grammar. Those men receive more "likes" than the others who are more lackadaisical with their grammar skills.
Although I make my share of grammatical errors, I work like heck to limit them. Nonetheless, I admit to being a grammar Nazi. I may not be totally efficient (or as thoroughly educated as I'd like to be on the subject) with all the rules of grammar, but I sure expect it of others! LOL! And I find it ironic that I am a horrible speller, yet when a man misspells words, it turns me off. How unfair of me!
Bottom line? Don't let social media, tweeting or texting ruin your grammatical skills (or your love life!). :) Make an effort at the very least.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Should you OUTLINE?
I wrote my first novel, Cadence Beach, without an outline, but as I write this second novel, I find I could use an outline.
I'm not a fan of rigid or long, involved outlines by any means, but I have come to a place in my writing process where I do believe an outline that offers a clear path to follow from point A-Z is a necessary tool. If only I'd come to that helpful conclusion thirteen chapters ago, I wouldn't be limping through my first draft as much as I am. But, as I mentioned, I made it successfully through novel number one without an outline; I'll make it through the current one.
I do write a brief summary or synopsis of a story before I begin draft number one, but I'm finding it's not helpful enough to carry me through to the end. So, my advice to fellow writers is to always write some sort of outline, long or short, for the simple value of moving the process of writing a first draft along at a more reasonable pace. You'll groom the path along the way with adding and changing details , but at least with an outline there is a path to follow.
Through both personal experience (as mentioned above) and a wonderful, helpful book I purchased called Outlining Your Novel: Map Your Way to Success by K.M. Weiland, I'm on my way to a smoother and better paced writing experience. I hope you find the same successful outcome.
I'm not a fan of rigid or long, involved outlines by any means, but I have come to a place in my writing process where I do believe an outline that offers a clear path to follow from point A-Z is a necessary tool. If only I'd come to that helpful conclusion thirteen chapters ago, I wouldn't be limping through my first draft as much as I am. But, as I mentioned, I made it successfully through novel number one without an outline; I'll make it through the current one.
I do write a brief summary or synopsis of a story before I begin draft number one, but I'm finding it's not helpful enough to carry me through to the end. So, my advice to fellow writers is to always write some sort of outline, long or short, for the simple value of moving the process of writing a first draft along at a more reasonable pace. You'll groom the path along the way with adding and changing details , but at least with an outline there is a path to follow.
Through both personal experience (as mentioned above) and a wonderful, helpful book I purchased called Outlining Your Novel: Map Your Way to Success by K.M. Weiland, I'm on my way to a smoother and better paced writing experience. I hope you find the same successful outcome.
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Preparing for College
As my eldest is going through the task of filling out college apps and writing numerous essays, I'm struck by one thing: the questions of gender and ethnicity (maybe two things?). If discrimination due to gender or ethnicity is not acceptable (or legal!), then why do those questions even make an appearance on the applications for college? Those questions can easily be answered (if needed) after acceptance into the college.
I confess I have not looked at any of the apps as I'm not the one applying to schools, so I don't know if the questions of gender and ethnicity are optional, but I don't think they have any business being on the application at all if one is to believe it's illegal to discriminate against any gender or race/ethnicity. I doubt they are asking out of curiosity (yeah, right!) or even to keep track of what groups are applying in the first place. Those questions can be answered upon acceptance into a college.
I don't know if being white, Italian, Scandinavian and American Indian will help or hurt my child in this process, but the inappropriateness of the above mentioned questions remains regardless.
Shouldn't merits be the focus? The only focus?
Would you agree or disagree that posing the question of gender or ethnicity on college applications is unnecessary, even wrong?
Whatever questions are posed or not on college applications, it's an exciting and anxious time for young students who wish to further their education, so I wish them all the very best!
I confess I have not looked at any of the apps as I'm not the one applying to schools, so I don't know if the questions of gender and ethnicity are optional, but I don't think they have any business being on the application at all if one is to believe it's illegal to discriminate against any gender or race/ethnicity. I doubt they are asking out of curiosity (yeah, right!) or even to keep track of what groups are applying in the first place. Those questions can be answered upon acceptance into a college.
I don't know if being white, Italian, Scandinavian and American Indian will help or hurt my child in this process, but the inappropriateness of the above mentioned questions remains regardless.
Shouldn't merits be the focus? The only focus?
Would you agree or disagree that posing the question of gender or ethnicity on college applications is unnecessary, even wrong?
Whatever questions are posed or not on college applications, it's an exciting and anxious time for young students who wish to further their education, so I wish them all the very best!
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Slowing Down
Good day!
I just read a post on LinkedIn where a fellow author talked about being way too busy to visit the site often enough to reap any benefits, then followed up the post with another, sharing that she'd just had her eyes opened to the fact she was living her life way to fast when she received a speeding ticket. Her "story" inspired this post.
Like most of us, I can fill my days to the brim and have little time left for anything else but eating and sleeping. But I choose not to. That has never made me happy, and I don't handle high stress well. So a long time ago, I carefully chose not to "be too busy". How do I do this? Well, I guarantee it's not because I have any less life to live than most. I believe, and my choices reflect this belief (in other words, I practice what I "preach"), that most of us always have a choice. Our busy schedule will only be as busy as we allow. No matter how insurmountable your schedule may seem, take a deep, examining look and you'll find you can shift or remove things from that schedule that will indeed free up some of your time for much needed reflection, rest or social activities.
It's a choice (in most cases, not all). A choice I personally made a long time ago when I realized I couldn't live at a high level of stress or be too busy. I needed reflection time, time to exercise and time to be a friend, mother and wife, and time to do it well. I make that time on a daily bases with the exceptions being limited and short-term.
To my point, many of us find the time for exercise, squeezing it in during early morning, mid-day, evenings, late at night or in small bursts all throughout the day. The end result is that you have "found time" to exercise. On the flip side, others claim they have no time to exercise when the truth of it is, they don't want to fit it into a schedule they already feel is overwhelming. Bottom line: we have time for whatever we make time for. And if you think you don't have time to make or enjoy friendships, or reap the benefits of exercise, or just do nothing for a while, try looking again.
Of course, like everything in life there are exceptions. But for the most part, the majority of us can choose how we live, and our busy schedules that keep us from the things we need or want to do should be temporary. Being too busy for something we want to enjoy or experience should be a short-term issue, not a daily, long-term way of life. Life will always throw curves, but we should find our way around those curves and back onto a path at a pace we can enjoy to the fullest.
I simply suggest most of us do have time for the important things in life if we are willing to rearrange and shift for them. And I also suggest each of us take the time to slow down. Really slow down. Time, even just an hour out of our day, to reflect or be at rest can make such a difference. You'll be a better you.
I hope this has been helpful and/or eye-opening to some of you. Good luck, and may you "find the time" for all the things you enjoy and love.
I just read a post on LinkedIn where a fellow author talked about being way too busy to visit the site often enough to reap any benefits, then followed up the post with another, sharing that she'd just had her eyes opened to the fact she was living her life way to fast when she received a speeding ticket. Her "story" inspired this post.
Like most of us, I can fill my days to the brim and have little time left for anything else but eating and sleeping. But I choose not to. That has never made me happy, and I don't handle high stress well. So a long time ago, I carefully chose not to "be too busy". How do I do this? Well, I guarantee it's not because I have any less life to live than most. I believe, and my choices reflect this belief (in other words, I practice what I "preach"), that most of us always have a choice. Our busy schedule will only be as busy as we allow. No matter how insurmountable your schedule may seem, take a deep, examining look and you'll find you can shift or remove things from that schedule that will indeed free up some of your time for much needed reflection, rest or social activities.
It's a choice (in most cases, not all). A choice I personally made a long time ago when I realized I couldn't live at a high level of stress or be too busy. I needed reflection time, time to exercise and time to be a friend, mother and wife, and time to do it well. I make that time on a daily bases with the exceptions being limited and short-term.
To my point, many of us find the time for exercise, squeezing it in during early morning, mid-day, evenings, late at night or in small bursts all throughout the day. The end result is that you have "found time" to exercise. On the flip side, others claim they have no time to exercise when the truth of it is, they don't want to fit it into a schedule they already feel is overwhelming. Bottom line: we have time for whatever we make time for. And if you think you don't have time to make or enjoy friendships, or reap the benefits of exercise, or just do nothing for a while, try looking again.
Of course, like everything in life there are exceptions. But for the most part, the majority of us can choose how we live, and our busy schedules that keep us from the things we need or want to do should be temporary. Being too busy for something we want to enjoy or experience should be a short-term issue, not a daily, long-term way of life. Life will always throw curves, but we should find our way around those curves and back onto a path at a pace we can enjoy to the fullest.
I simply suggest most of us do have time for the important things in life if we are willing to rearrange and shift for them. And I also suggest each of us take the time to slow down. Really slow down. Time, even just an hour out of our day, to reflect or be at rest can make such a difference. You'll be a better you.
I hope this has been helpful and/or eye-opening to some of you. Good luck, and may you "find the time" for all the things you enjoy and love.
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
First Draft
I recently took a writing class where the instructor spent a great deal of time and energy trying to get one very important point or lesson across: your first draft will suck!
At first, I shook my head, thinking no way could I possibly let my first draft suck (the idea piqued my OCD behavior tendencies!). I'm one of those writers who edits as she goes. While it's not exactly a bad thing to do, it does slow down the process and "talks over" the creative voice.
The best advice I got from the class was to let myself "write badly", knowing I will most definitely be writing several more drafts following (my favorite part of the process, oddly enough).
Changing any habit is tough, and this has been no exception. I still try to edit as I write my first draft, but now that I'm aware of what I'm doing, I can hush the editor voice and let the creative voice rise.
I still stop about 1/4 of the way through and start from the beginning again, editing just enough to get a better and stronger grasp on where my story is going, who the characters are in all their glory and yes, correcting any issues I find along the way. This process works great . . . for me. I think of it as catching my breath part way through the course before hiking up the remainder of the hill.
If you don't already keep your inner editor at bay during the first draft, give it a try. It's very freeing! And it allows the creative voice to pave the way.
Here is a link to an informative and entertainingly written guest column on the Writer's Digest website by author Kathy Leonard Czepiel. - http://www.writersdigest.com/editor-blogs/guide-to-literary-agents/5-tips-on-writing-first-drafts
Enjoy and good luck with your own process!
At first, I shook my head, thinking no way could I possibly let my first draft suck (the idea piqued my OCD behavior tendencies!). I'm one of those writers who edits as she goes. While it's not exactly a bad thing to do, it does slow down the process and "talks over" the creative voice.
The best advice I got from the class was to let myself "write badly", knowing I will most definitely be writing several more drafts following (my favorite part of the process, oddly enough).
Changing any habit is tough, and this has been no exception. I still try to edit as I write my first draft, but now that I'm aware of what I'm doing, I can hush the editor voice and let the creative voice rise.
I still stop about 1/4 of the way through and start from the beginning again, editing just enough to get a better and stronger grasp on where my story is going, who the characters are in all their glory and yes, correcting any issues I find along the way. This process works great . . . for me. I think of it as catching my breath part way through the course before hiking up the remainder of the hill.
If you don't already keep your inner editor at bay during the first draft, give it a try. It's very freeing! And it allows the creative voice to pave the way.
Here is a link to an informative and entertainingly written guest column on the Writer's Digest website by author Kathy Leonard Czepiel. - http://www.writersdigest.com/editor-blogs/guide-to-literary-agents/5-tips-on-writing-first-drafts
Enjoy and good luck with your own process!
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Back from the dead no longer science fiction?
Did you know that birth rates around the world are down? Yet population is rising. This is due to our ability (and obsessive need) to prolong life. Many of the strides we've made to prolong life are wonderful, but are we taking it too far when there is talk of bringing people back from the dead?
On the Today Show this morning (http://todayhealth.today.com/_news/2013/02/26/17101996-god-held-me-coming-back-from-the-brink-of-death-is-possible-says-doctor?lite), there was a guest author/scientist who is taking part in the discussion about bringing people back after they die.
Unlike a sci-fi movie, the return to life must occur within 8 hours after a person is considered a corpse (this is new knowledge). They (scientists) are working on how to do this without brain damage or any damage to the person, and they seem to have it nearly figured out. It's a matter of making the process available world wide (or even hospital wide). Depending on what city and hospital you end up in, you may or may not be brought back if you die.
How do you feel about this? I'm torn.
Having a loved one die is beyond painful, and I can imagine the urge to bring them back, but I'm torn as to how good of an idea this is. Maybe it depends on what killed them? Hmmm. I can't say. But ultimately, I suppose my Christan faith reminds me that no matter what we do or don't do, if God wants us to go home to him, there will be no fighting it. And if he wants to allow us to stay longer, he'll let that happen, too, via doctors or whatever means. So we may as well do everything in our power to save loved ones and ourselves (as is our instinct). That's how we should live anyway, right? Do everything "in our power" to accomplish whatever (even life) and let God take over where our own power falls short.
Keeping this in mind, the next time you see a family with more than the accepted 2 kids, smile instead of sneering (yes, I've heard many times of people sneering at families). From what I've read in many different sources, they are NOT the problem with population, in fact we need them to help balance the age demographic of our population. Right now we are headed to being top heavy with seniors (we may already be there, I'm not quite up-to-date). We need the young ones to refresh the world! ;)
The above statements are my interpretation and opinion. You are encouraged to share yours.
On the Today Show this morning (http://todayhealth.today.com/_news/2013/02/26/17101996-god-held-me-coming-back-from-the-brink-of-death-is-possible-says-doctor?lite), there was a guest author/scientist who is taking part in the discussion about bringing people back after they die.
Unlike a sci-fi movie, the return to life must occur within 8 hours after a person is considered a corpse (this is new knowledge). They (scientists) are working on how to do this without brain damage or any damage to the person, and they seem to have it nearly figured out. It's a matter of making the process available world wide (or even hospital wide). Depending on what city and hospital you end up in, you may or may not be brought back if you die.
How do you feel about this? I'm torn.
Having a loved one die is beyond painful, and I can imagine the urge to bring them back, but I'm torn as to how good of an idea this is. Maybe it depends on what killed them? Hmmm. I can't say. But ultimately, I suppose my Christan faith reminds me that no matter what we do or don't do, if God wants us to go home to him, there will be no fighting it. And if he wants to allow us to stay longer, he'll let that happen, too, via doctors or whatever means. So we may as well do everything in our power to save loved ones and ourselves (as is our instinct). That's how we should live anyway, right? Do everything "in our power" to accomplish whatever (even life) and let God take over where our own power falls short.
Keeping this in mind, the next time you see a family with more than the accepted 2 kids, smile instead of sneering (yes, I've heard many times of people sneering at families). From what I've read in many different sources, they are NOT the problem with population, in fact we need them to help balance the age demographic of our population. Right now we are headed to being top heavy with seniors (we may already be there, I'm not quite up-to-date). We need the young ones to refresh the world! ;)
The above statements are my interpretation and opinion. You are encouraged to share yours.
Monday, February 25, 2013
Outlines: love them or hate them?
I recently read an article about novelists and outlines. Some writers can't imagine trying to piece together a story without a tight, involved outline, and others wing it all the way. I fall somewhere in between precise and winging it. I think.
I begin with an idea for a story and a very rough idea of characters and setting, then put that "on paper". That's where I start, but once I begin the actual writing, I back-fill the outline. I let the story and characters develop as I go, then make notes on the outline rather than the other way around. It works for me.
It's best not to be too rigid about the writing process, allowing imagination to sculpt. But with that said, I also believe each writer must do what feels most comfortable to them and what works. What I've learned most recently is that there are no rules to how we create our stories, only suggestions. Don't box yourself in with rules, even if you created them. Be open to change your process as you go, as you learn and grow.
The creative mind needs wiggle-room and a safe place to experiment. This has not been an easy lesson for me (I'm a rule-follower!), but I'm getting it now and it feels fantastic. With my second novel, I'm feeling the exhilarating freedom of . . . well . . . freedom. And I love it! Rules have their place, but that place is not in the creative process.
So follow your own creative path and enjoy the process guilt free!
Here is a link to an article on advantages and disadvantages of writing:
http://www.dailywritingtips.com/to-outline-or-not-to-outline-that-is-the-question/
Link on how to write an outline:
http://www.wikihow.com/Write-an-Outline
I begin with an idea for a story and a very rough idea of characters and setting, then put that "on paper". That's where I start, but once I begin the actual writing, I back-fill the outline. I let the story and characters develop as I go, then make notes on the outline rather than the other way around. It works for me.
It's best not to be too rigid about the writing process, allowing imagination to sculpt. But with that said, I also believe each writer must do what feels most comfortable to them and what works. What I've learned most recently is that there are no rules to how we create our stories, only suggestions. Don't box yourself in with rules, even if you created them. Be open to change your process as you go, as you learn and grow.
The creative mind needs wiggle-room and a safe place to experiment. This has not been an easy lesson for me (I'm a rule-follower!), but I'm getting it now and it feels fantastic. With my second novel, I'm feeling the exhilarating freedom of . . . well . . . freedom. And I love it! Rules have their place, but that place is not in the creative process.
So follow your own creative path and enjoy the process guilt free!
Here is a link to an article on advantages and disadvantages of writing:
http://www.dailywritingtips.com/to-outline-or-not-to-outline-that-is-the-question/
Link on how to write an outline:
http://www.wikihow.com/Write-an-Outline
Monday, January 14, 2013
If you're not prepared to be wrong...
"If you're not prepared to be wrong, you'll never come up with anything original."--Ken Robinson.
I was watching a short video about schools and learning processes by phenominal speaker Ken Robinson (http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html) when he made the above statement. I jotted it down and read it several times, letting the truth of the words sink in. I encourage you to do the same. The statement is profound for every one of us, but especially those of us fearful of taking chances.
Try to write without fear and filters. Or at the very least, don't let those things inhibit your writing, or curb your ability to let creativity flow. It sounds like a no-brainer, but it's surprising how our own internal filters (or neg. and fearful voices) can hold us back. Write with freedom and abandon, let it pour out of you. Filters, or editing, comes later. First create, then shape. But through it all, keep the above quote close at hand.
I was watching a short video about schools and learning processes by phenominal speaker Ken Robinson (http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html) when he made the above statement. I jotted it down and read it several times, letting the truth of the words sink in. I encourage you to do the same. The statement is profound for every one of us, but especially those of us fearful of taking chances.
Try to write without fear and filters. Or at the very least, don't let those things inhibit your writing, or curb your ability to let creativity flow. It sounds like a no-brainer, but it's surprising how our own internal filters (or neg. and fearful voices) can hold us back. Write with freedom and abandon, let it pour out of you. Filters, or editing, comes later. First create, then shape. But through it all, keep the above quote close at hand.
Saturday, January 5, 2013
Change in this blog profile!!
Hello followers and visitors!
After a very long time agonizing over how to run this blog, I believe I've finally found my place. I've never written a blog, and I'm new to the blogging community, so none of this is coming easily or naturally to me. But after months (no exaggeration!) of trying (and failing) to come up with a topic to build my blog posts around, I think I've finally got it.
I was cleaning house without a single thought about blogging (confession: I haven't thought about blogging in weeks) when it (cliche alert!) hit me out of the blue. I'm going to blog about the process of writing and what I've learned and what I learn as I continue to grow into a better, stronger writer. That's an easy enough topic since I'm constantly striving to learn as much as I can about the craft of writing, and I'd be happy to share my knowledge. Remember, about 10% of writing is talent, the rest is hard work.
I write fiction with an emphasis on women's romantic contemporary fiction, but the advice and knowledge I share will be helpful to writers across the board, all genres, because writing is writing.
There is a basic knowledge and understanding we all need for success in writing as a career, then there is all the other stuff we as creative individuals will add. I'll have bits of both here for you.
Now, all that said and done, I'd like to begin with my first "tidbit": Write with the intent to place your reader into your world, or story (fiction or non-fiction).
Yes, I realize how obvious my above statement sounds, but really think about it. You might be surprised to find part - or possibly even all - of the above mentioned message got lost or misplaced when you sat down and "put pen to paper".
We as writers are not responsible for whether or not people like our work (this is important to remember), but we are responsible for getting them to "feel" the story. They should feel present, pulled into the story from beginning to end. If you've managed that, you've managed true success.
I know for myself, I was unconsciously too aware of trying to convince my readers to like the story that I lost sight of the true goal. Not totally or completely lost, but enough that I can feel the difference in myself and my writing now that my focus is better aligned.
If you are writing anything you want to have read, you'll always want the reader's pov in the back of your mind, but your best work will come through if you keep your story (and all that it embodies) in the front of your mind.
And that's it! The first post of this new blog form. I'm ready for the new year and all the success it has for me. I wish the best for all of you, too. Happy New Year!
*Please leave a comment with your thoughts or your own words of advice. ;)
After a very long time agonizing over how to run this blog, I believe I've finally found my place. I've never written a blog, and I'm new to the blogging community, so none of this is coming easily or naturally to me. But after months (no exaggeration!) of trying (and failing) to come up with a topic to build my blog posts around, I think I've finally got it.
I was cleaning house without a single thought about blogging (confession: I haven't thought about blogging in weeks) when it (cliche alert!) hit me out of the blue. I'm going to blog about the process of writing and what I've learned and what I learn as I continue to grow into a better, stronger writer. That's an easy enough topic since I'm constantly striving to learn as much as I can about the craft of writing, and I'd be happy to share my knowledge. Remember, about 10% of writing is talent, the rest is hard work.
I write fiction with an emphasis on women's romantic contemporary fiction, but the advice and knowledge I share will be helpful to writers across the board, all genres, because writing is writing.
There is a basic knowledge and understanding we all need for success in writing as a career, then there is all the other stuff we as creative individuals will add. I'll have bits of both here for you.
Now, all that said and done, I'd like to begin with my first "tidbit": Write with the intent to place your reader into your world, or story (fiction or non-fiction).
Yes, I realize how obvious my above statement sounds, but really think about it. You might be surprised to find part - or possibly even all - of the above mentioned message got lost or misplaced when you sat down and "put pen to paper".
We as writers are not responsible for whether or not people like our work (this is important to remember), but we are responsible for getting them to "feel" the story. They should feel present, pulled into the story from beginning to end. If you've managed that, you've managed true success.
I know for myself, I was unconsciously too aware of trying to convince my readers to like the story that I lost sight of the true goal. Not totally or completely lost, but enough that I can feel the difference in myself and my writing now that my focus is better aligned.
If you are writing anything you want to have read, you'll always want the reader's pov in the back of your mind, but your best work will come through if you keep your story (and all that it embodies) in the front of your mind.
And that's it! The first post of this new blog form. I'm ready for the new year and all the success it has for me. I wish the best for all of you, too. Happy New Year!
*Please leave a comment with your thoughts or your own words of advice. ;)
Monday, October 22, 2012
Curse or Blessing?
I thought I'd provide an update on my writing life for all of you fellow writers out there who may (hopefully) be interested. I imagine you'll find similarities in our perspectives.
At this point, I find myself working tirelessly to keep a good, optimistic attitude about my "choice" of craft. It's not an easy task to constantly fight the hag and her sister the nag who love to tell me I'm fooling myself, I don't have what it takes and I never will. Thankfully, it seems I have an even stronger voice (I believe from God) that always manages to talk over Hag and Nag, pounding them pack into place, allowing me to continue to move forward without quitting.
Sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to quit writing. I honestly don't think it is. Can any of us truly walk away (without a heavy spirit) from what is quite possibly a gift given to us before we ever thought to ask for it? For me, it would be akin to quitting eating, or drinking, or breathing. It's oddly a part of me, almost like a lung. I can survive without it, but it's not ideal. It's not easy to explain, this overpowering desire to write and to learn as much about the craft as I can possibly absorb into my little brain. Grammar, spelling (I mean, where would I be without spell check?!), voice and talent; these are among the things I strive passionately to strengthen and nurture.
This "calling" to write is both a blessing and a curse.
I call it a curse because no matter how frustrated or down I get about my abilities, I can't walk away. I just can't. Something always pulls me back to writing, to working more and working harder. I can suffer a less than glowing review of my novel, spiral into a state of depression or melancholy over it, but without fail, before I even realize what's happened, I'm right back writing again. The perpetual "getting back on that horse".
For good or bad, through ups and downs, here I am, a writer always in the making. Just as being human is always a work in progress, so is becoming, or being a writer. We do what we have to do, like it or not. It's just not a choice, is it? Saying it's a choice to write when every fiber of you craves the craft would be like claiming you have a choice to breathe.
Curse or blessing, I'm in it for the long haul. And the bottom line is . . . I love it!! And I hate it!
At this point, I find myself working tirelessly to keep a good, optimistic attitude about my "choice" of craft. It's not an easy task to constantly fight the hag and her sister the nag who love to tell me I'm fooling myself, I don't have what it takes and I never will. Thankfully, it seems I have an even stronger voice (I believe from God) that always manages to talk over Hag and Nag, pounding them pack into place, allowing me to continue to move forward without quitting.
Sometimes I wonder if it's even possible to quit writing. I honestly don't think it is. Can any of us truly walk away (without a heavy spirit) from what is quite possibly a gift given to us before we ever thought to ask for it? For me, it would be akin to quitting eating, or drinking, or breathing. It's oddly a part of me, almost like a lung. I can survive without it, but it's not ideal. It's not easy to explain, this overpowering desire to write and to learn as much about the craft as I can possibly absorb into my little brain. Grammar, spelling (I mean, where would I be without spell check?!), voice and talent; these are among the things I strive passionately to strengthen and nurture.
This "calling" to write is both a blessing and a curse.
I call it a curse because no matter how frustrated or down I get about my abilities, I can't walk away. I just can't. Something always pulls me back to writing, to working more and working harder. I can suffer a less than glowing review of my novel, spiral into a state of depression or melancholy over it, but without fail, before I even realize what's happened, I'm right back writing again. The perpetual "getting back on that horse".
For good or bad, through ups and downs, here I am, a writer always in the making. Just as being human is always a work in progress, so is becoming, or being a writer. We do what we have to do, like it or not. It's just not a choice, is it? Saying it's a choice to write when every fiber of you craves the craft would be like claiming you have a choice to breathe.
Curse or blessing, I'm in it for the long haul. And the bottom line is . . . I love it!! And I hate it!
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
George R.R. Martin writing habits...
I had a wonderful moment of discovery and validation this weekend as an author. On reading this month's edition of Writer's Digest magazine, I ran across an author I was unfamiliar with, but who I connected with in a surprising way.
Although George R.R. Martin writes fantasy (he's the author of the Game of Thrones as well as many others) and I write romantic women's fiction, we have very similar writing habits. What a fun (and I'll admit, validating) discovery!
So often I've come across authors who can release a new novel every year, or authors who say they write every day, usually completing a chapter a day. I do neither of these things. And I was beginning to think I was alone . . . until now.
In an interesting interview with Mr. Martin, I discovered it takes him a good five years between novels, even his sequels! He admits he's a slow writer, and his reasons are the same as mine. When he writes, he begins by going over what he wrote the previous day both to do a little editing and to build momentum. I do exactly the same thing. It may slow things down, but it works for some of us very well. He "admits" to only completing maybe 5-10 new pages a day (or when he writes) at most! That was wonderful to hear! I tire of hearing how some people complete a chapter a day, or more! No way. I just don't work that way, and now I feel a whole new freedom to comfortably be who I am, write how I write. It's wonderful.
We writers have all kinds of styles and habits, all of which are perfectly wonderful . . . IF they work for us. That's all that matters. If it works, it's perfect . . . for you, or me. Speed of writing isn't important, quality is. How we get there doesn't matter in the least, it's only that we get there.
So take comfort, we have much in common with one another and much that is not, but it's all just fine. We can celebrate together our differences, our outcome and our craft. ;)
Although George R.R. Martin writes fantasy (he's the author of the Game of Thrones as well as many others) and I write romantic women's fiction, we have very similar writing habits. What a fun (and I'll admit, validating) discovery!
So often I've come across authors who can release a new novel every year, or authors who say they write every day, usually completing a chapter a day. I do neither of these things. And I was beginning to think I was alone . . . until now.
In an interesting interview with Mr. Martin, I discovered it takes him a good five years between novels, even his sequels! He admits he's a slow writer, and his reasons are the same as mine. When he writes, he begins by going over what he wrote the previous day both to do a little editing and to build momentum. I do exactly the same thing. It may slow things down, but it works for some of us very well. He "admits" to only completing maybe 5-10 new pages a day (or when he writes) at most! That was wonderful to hear! I tire of hearing how some people complete a chapter a day, or more! No way. I just don't work that way, and now I feel a whole new freedom to comfortably be who I am, write how I write. It's wonderful.
We writers have all kinds of styles and habits, all of which are perfectly wonderful . . . IF they work for us. That's all that matters. If it works, it's perfect . . . for you, or me. Speed of writing isn't important, quality is. How we get there doesn't matter in the least, it's only that we get there.
So take comfort, we have much in common with one another and much that is not, but it's all just fine. We can celebrate together our differences, our outcome and our craft. ;)
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Reading Ken Follett
Calling all readers! Any fans of Ken Follett? I've only read one book of his (The Pillars of the Earth), and it was wonderful. I admit his novels are loooonnnggg, but they are engrossing. Right now I'm reading "Fall of Giants", the first in his Century Trilogy. It's 985 pages long! I'm hoping it's a great book, or I'll be in for a frustrating read. So far, so good!
If anyone else has read or is reading this book, I'd love to hear from you!
I just finished "The Russian Concubine", so I'd say that after "Fall of Giants", I'll need to mix it up a bit and go to something lighter before tackling the second book of the trilogy. Thankfully, there's no shortage of books to choose from.
I may exclusively write romantic women's fiction, but I'm an eclectic reader. I love all kinds of books, including some memoirs and biography's, but mostly I enjoy fiction (with that ever important element of romance).
I've heard on more than one occasion that reading fiction in particular is a wonderful brain exercise. Reading is good on many levels, but apparently reading fiction adds another element. I would imagine it's due to the use of our imaginations, stretching them. We have to visualize and feel what the author is describing, unlike lazily having all that done for us in movies and television. Don't get me wrong, I love movies! It's just not a brain stimulating activity. ;)
Well, happy reading! May you always have a book at hand, even if it takes you many weeks to finish it. ;)
If anyone else has read or is reading this book, I'd love to hear from you!
I just finished "The Russian Concubine", so I'd say that after "Fall of Giants", I'll need to mix it up a bit and go to something lighter before tackling the second book of the trilogy. Thankfully, there's no shortage of books to choose from.
I may exclusively write romantic women's fiction, but I'm an eclectic reader. I love all kinds of books, including some memoirs and biography's, but mostly I enjoy fiction (with that ever important element of romance).
I've heard on more than one occasion that reading fiction in particular is a wonderful brain exercise. Reading is good on many levels, but apparently reading fiction adds another element. I would imagine it's due to the use of our imaginations, stretching them. We have to visualize and feel what the author is describing, unlike lazily having all that done for us in movies and television. Don't get me wrong, I love movies! It's just not a brain stimulating activity. ;)
Well, happy reading! May you always have a book at hand, even if it takes you many weeks to finish it. ;)
Friday, September 14, 2012
Finding your writing style
As a new author with her first novel out, I spend a lot of time continually learning and growing so the following work will be even stronger. As with anything in life, practice makes perfect (or close enough to perfect while still being human). Writing is no exception. The more we write, the better writers we become. And the more we read, the stronger grasp we'll have on the craft.
Recently, I've had a huge brain fart. If that's a good thing, because this lightbulb-moment is a good thing, huge for me. Now, what to do about it. What was the discovery, you ask? I'll tell you.
As most writers do, I read a lot. I read what I love, but I also step outside that box and dip into new adventures. Being part of a book club helps with this as we can't pick and choose what we read. Anyway, back to my "discovery". In my reading a new favorite author (Jill Mansell), I found that I'm completely taken with not just her stories, but with her style of writing. She bravely allows her personality to play a starring role in her characters lives. In particular, I love her humor!
The big difference between her writing and mine (besides the fact she's written MANY novels and I'm on my second) is she's (fearlessly) clearly comfortable with her style. In reading her wonderful work, I've discovered that I've found my style, but haven't completely let it shine through. Not even my humor, which is very similar to Ms. Mansell's. I've done well, but know I've held back, mostly out of my trepidation as a new author. But not anymore! I get it! Let go and be me, bravely. I get it!
I'm happy to say that as I continue through this journey as a budding author, and as I learn so much every day and with every experience, I'm getting stronger and braver. It's not that I haven't been true to myself in my writing up to this point, I'd say it's more a matter of holding back a bit, unsure how to let go. Finally, I see the light.
We, fellow writers, must always be taking a close look into ourselves and overcome our fears so we can blossom into the flowers (or for males, the . . . I don't know, something masculine) we are meant to become. Be true to ourselves, true to our own individual writing style.
So, be brave, ask questions constantly, and never stop learning, changing and growing.
Happy writing and reading!
Recently, I've had a huge brain fart. If that's a good thing, because this lightbulb-moment is a good thing, huge for me. Now, what to do about it. What was the discovery, you ask? I'll tell you.
As most writers do, I read a lot. I read what I love, but I also step outside that box and dip into new adventures. Being part of a book club helps with this as we can't pick and choose what we read. Anyway, back to my "discovery". In my reading a new favorite author (Jill Mansell), I found that I'm completely taken with not just her stories, but with her style of writing. She bravely allows her personality to play a starring role in her characters lives. In particular, I love her humor!
The big difference between her writing and mine (besides the fact she's written MANY novels and I'm on my second) is she's (fearlessly) clearly comfortable with her style. In reading her wonderful work, I've discovered that I've found my style, but haven't completely let it shine through. Not even my humor, which is very similar to Ms. Mansell's. I've done well, but know I've held back, mostly out of my trepidation as a new author. But not anymore! I get it! Let go and be me, bravely. I get it!
I'm happy to say that as I continue through this journey as a budding author, and as I learn so much every day and with every experience, I'm getting stronger and braver. It's not that I haven't been true to myself in my writing up to this point, I'd say it's more a matter of holding back a bit, unsure how to let go. Finally, I see the light.
We, fellow writers, must always be taking a close look into ourselves and overcome our fears so we can blossom into the flowers (or for males, the . . . I don't know, something masculine) we are meant to become. Be true to ourselves, true to our own individual writing style.
So, be brave, ask questions constantly, and never stop learning, changing and growing.
Happy writing and reading!
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Finding an artist for e-book cover images
You've written a book and now you need the artwork for the e-book cover done. Where to turn?
Here's a start:
You can send an e-mail to Mark Coker (of smashwords.com) at list@smashwords.com to request Mark's list of fellow Smashwords authors you can hire to create ebook covers. Prices range from $40 to $100. Through this list, I found Joleene Naylor (joleene@joleenenaylor.com). Her website is http://coverart.joleenenaylor.com/ if you'd like to take a look. She did a fantastic job on my cover, and was easy and comfortable to work with.
I recommend you look through the list by Mark and check each person's website/portfolio then go from there. Find your fit!
Good luck and happy hunting! ;)
Here's a start:
You can send an e-mail to Mark Coker (of smashwords.com) at list@smashwords.com to request Mark's list of fellow Smashwords authors you can hire to create ebook covers. Prices range from $40 to $100. Through this list, I found Joleene Naylor (joleene@joleenenaylor.com). Her website is http://coverart.joleenenaylor.com/ if you'd like to take a look. She did a fantastic job on my cover, and was easy and comfortable to work with.
I recommend you look through the list by Mark and check each person's website/portfolio then go from there. Find your fit!
Good luck and happy hunting! ;)
Sunday, August 5, 2012
Back in town!
Hi all! Sorry to have been MIA for such a long period, but I've been doing the summer thing. I was out of town for nearly 2 weeks enjoying sun and fun with family and friends.
I wish I had some deep and insightful thing to say right now, but my brain is still in summer-jell-o-mode. How's that for invoking an image??!
I will say, however, I've been keeping up with my reading better than my writing, and that is not something that feels good. Like needing food or water, I need to write to feel my healthiest and to survive. Okay, maybe a slight exaggeration with the survival statement, but I do feel at my best when I'm writing productively. I can't wait to get back into my writing groove!! School starts in 2 weeks on my end, so kids will be off for the days and I'll be busy writing my heart out.
But back to the reading end of things for me. Right now I'm reading a book that's based during a time period and a country I rarely ever read about. It's quite an interesting change for me, and the book is good so far. It's called The Red Scarf by Kate Furnivall, and it's a story about a young women who has lived then escaped life in a Labor camp in Siberia in 1933 (Stalin's rule). I have a passion for stories (mostly based on true events) that rise from the concentration camps during Hitler's period. This passion comes from my intense fascination of the story of human survival in unbelievable circumstances. I can't seem to get enough of these heartbreaking yet triumphant story lines. Keep in mind, it's not the mistreatment of humans I like to read about, it's their triumphant survival I thrive on.
It's disgusting and surprising how many stories throughout history and the world so closely simulate the "Jewish story" of opression and survival.
Here is a description of what the Red Scarf is about:
Davinsky Labor Camp, Siberia, 1933: Only two things in this wretched place keep Sofia from giving up hope: the prospect of freedom, and the stories told by her friend and fellow prisoner Anna, of a charmed childhood in Petrograd, and her fervent girlhood love for a passionate revolutionary named Vasily.
After a perilous escape, Sofia endures months of desolation and hardship. But, clinging to a promise she made to Anna, she subsists on the belief that someday she will track down Vasily. In a remote village, she?s nursed back to health by a Gypsy family, and there she finds more than refuge?she also finds Mikhail Pashin, who, her heart tells her, is Vasily in disguise. He?s everything she has ever wanted?but he belongs to Anna.
After coming this far, Sofia is tantalizingly close to freedom, family?even a future. All that stands in her way is the secret past that could endanger everything she has come to hold dear?
I'm looking forward to reading another book from Kate Furnival called The Russian Concubine, however, for right now, I plan to read something far lighter. I like to alternate heavy and light.
What books are you reading now? And why? ;)
I wish I had some deep and insightful thing to say right now, but my brain is still in summer-jell-o-mode. How's that for invoking an image??!
I will say, however, I've been keeping up with my reading better than my writing, and that is not something that feels good. Like needing food or water, I need to write to feel my healthiest and to survive. Okay, maybe a slight exaggeration with the survival statement, but I do feel at my best when I'm writing productively. I can't wait to get back into my writing groove!! School starts in 2 weeks on my end, so kids will be off for the days and I'll be busy writing my heart out.
But back to the reading end of things for me. Right now I'm reading a book that's based during a time period and a country I rarely ever read about. It's quite an interesting change for me, and the book is good so far. It's called The Red Scarf by Kate Furnivall, and it's a story about a young women who has lived then escaped life in a Labor camp in Siberia in 1933 (Stalin's rule). I have a passion for stories (mostly based on true events) that rise from the concentration camps during Hitler's period. This passion comes from my intense fascination of the story of human survival in unbelievable circumstances. I can't seem to get enough of these heartbreaking yet triumphant story lines. Keep in mind, it's not the mistreatment of humans I like to read about, it's their triumphant survival I thrive on.
It's disgusting and surprising how many stories throughout history and the world so closely simulate the "Jewish story" of opression and survival.
Here is a description of what the Red Scarf is about:
Davinsky Labor Camp, Siberia, 1933: Only two things in this wretched place keep Sofia from giving up hope: the prospect of freedom, and the stories told by her friend and fellow prisoner Anna, of a charmed childhood in Petrograd, and her fervent girlhood love for a passionate revolutionary named Vasily.
After a perilous escape, Sofia endures months of desolation and hardship. But, clinging to a promise she made to Anna, she subsists on the belief that someday she will track down Vasily. In a remote village, she?s nursed back to health by a Gypsy family, and there she finds more than refuge?she also finds Mikhail Pashin, who, her heart tells her, is Vasily in disguise. He?s everything she has ever wanted?but he belongs to Anna.
After coming this far, Sofia is tantalizingly close to freedom, family?even a future. All that stands in her way is the secret past that could endanger everything she has come to hold dear?
I'm looking forward to reading another book from Kate Furnival called The Russian Concubine, however, for right now, I plan to read something far lighter. I like to alternate heavy and light.
What books are you reading now? And why? ;)
Thursday, July 12, 2012
The importance of romance novels
I find it odd that so many people associate romance novels with sex, or sex scenes. To me, that association belongs to the erotica category, romance belongs to the romance category. Not that some romance novels don't call for some sex scenes, or provide some great ones! I'm simply saying I have an entire different association when I hear the word romantic novel, one that can actually be accredited with being good for your health. Why? Happiness is very good for ones health.
I think romantic novels play an important role for most of their readers. I believe reading a romance novel should be a heartwarming experience for the reader. Yes, I'm talking happy endings, endorphin releasing joy that comes after the storm.
People have different ideas of what falling-in-love should look like, but the bottom line is that it should conclude with a happy ending, however you get there. In my opinion as a reader of all categories of writing as well as an author of a romantic-suspense novel.
Yes, real life doesn't always offer happy endings, but that's exactly why I (and most readers of romance) turn to the romantic novel. We are looking for our heartstrings to be pulled in all different directions then gently put back in place. This leads me to my title statement. I think romance novels are an important outlet for people to escape the sting of reality and be submerged in a world where the ending will leave us light on our feet. An escape from reality, from daily news and all the horrors of the world.
I'm not saying a romantic novel should be, or need be, fluffy and light at all. Personally, I love it when a story is going sour between the two lovers, my heart aches for them, but I fully expect for things to turn around before the end, so I can walk away filled with a completeness only a happy ending can provide.
People need (crave) romance and happy endings in a world filled with so many other endings. We thrive on the feeling of fulfillment a romantic novel can provide. So read them without guilt or embarrassment. The classics are good, memoirs are good, and so many other categories, but if you want to rest assured your reading journey into another life, another world, will leave you with a high only happiness can provide, pick up a romantic novel now and again. It's good for you! ;)
This is why I'm such a fan of Jane Austen. I admit I find reading books from that time-period a little on the difficult side, but I adore her sense of what falling in love looks like in all its glory and all its pain. I absolutely believe Ms. Austen told love stories as they should be told, for pure pleasure of the reader.
What do you think? Do you agree? Disagree? Why? And what are your favorite reading categories, and why?
But whatever you read and for whatever reasons you have, happy reading!! A well-rounded reader is a healthy reader. ;)
I think romantic novels play an important role for most of their readers. I believe reading a romance novel should be a heartwarming experience for the reader. Yes, I'm talking happy endings, endorphin releasing joy that comes after the storm.
People have different ideas of what falling-in-love should look like, but the bottom line is that it should conclude with a happy ending, however you get there. In my opinion as a reader of all categories of writing as well as an author of a romantic-suspense novel.
Yes, real life doesn't always offer happy endings, but that's exactly why I (and most readers of romance) turn to the romantic novel. We are looking for our heartstrings to be pulled in all different directions then gently put back in place. This leads me to my title statement. I think romance novels are an important outlet for people to escape the sting of reality and be submerged in a world where the ending will leave us light on our feet. An escape from reality, from daily news and all the horrors of the world.
I'm not saying a romantic novel should be, or need be, fluffy and light at all. Personally, I love it when a story is going sour between the two lovers, my heart aches for them, but I fully expect for things to turn around before the end, so I can walk away filled with a completeness only a happy ending can provide.
People need (crave) romance and happy endings in a world filled with so many other endings. We thrive on the feeling of fulfillment a romantic novel can provide. So read them without guilt or embarrassment. The classics are good, memoirs are good, and so many other categories, but if you want to rest assured your reading journey into another life, another world, will leave you with a high only happiness can provide, pick up a romantic novel now and again. It's good for you! ;)
This is why I'm such a fan of Jane Austen. I admit I find reading books from that time-period a little on the difficult side, but I adore her sense of what falling in love looks like in all its glory and all its pain. I absolutely believe Ms. Austen told love stories as they should be told, for pure pleasure of the reader.
What do you think? Do you agree? Disagree? Why? And what are your favorite reading categories, and why?
But whatever you read and for whatever reasons you have, happy reading!! A well-rounded reader is a healthy reader. ;)
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